READY FOR OUR RENAISSANCE
this is Not
your
mama's marriage
(aka mom, mommy, maa, mother)
Culturally-Focused Coaching for Couples Ready to Break Old Patterns & Build Your New Legacy - no matter how long you've been together.
BREAK UP WITH THE OLD VERSION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP...
so you can build something better...
When you’re ready to go a little deeper - beyond surface-level fixes - we can get to the root of what’s really impacting your relationship.
No more walking on eggshells, wondering if this is as good as it gets, if they're still attracted to you, or staying stuck in endless cycles of arguing over the same things.
WHAT IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP COULD FEEL AMAZING - FOR BOTH OF YOU?
YES TO WHAT'S POSSIBLE
Unpack how childhood wounds, cultural influences, and past experiences are shaping your relationship - whether it’s how you argue, divide responsibilities, or make decisions. Keep what works, replace what doesn’t, and build something that fits both of you.
ARGUE LESS & UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER MORE
Learn how to talk through the hard stuff without spiraling into fights. Handle disagreements with clarity, compassion, and understanding so you both actually feel heard (and don’t walk away feeling worse than when you started).
CREATE A PARTNERSHIP YOU'RE PROUD OF
Build a relationship aligned with your values. This isn’t about living out someone else’s version of love - it’s about creating a partnership that feels good to YOU, and that you're proud to model for the next generation.
HEAL FROM PAST OR PRESENT HURT
Whether it’s old wounds you’ve carried for years or recent pain from betrayal, miscommunication, or feeling unseen, we’ll address it head-on. Together, we’ll create the space to heal, rebuild trust, and move forward with more security & understanding.
here's what's possible for you...
EVERY STRUGGLE HAS A STORY.
Whether you've been together 2 years or 20, your relationship struggles aren’t random - they’re shaped by everything you’ve been through - separately & together.
Childhood wounds, cultural expectations, past experiences, unmet needs & unresolved hurt —they all influence how you argue, connect, and show up for each other.
We don’t just look at what’s happening now.
We uncover the “WHY” behind it.
Whether it’s what you saw growing up, how you were taught to handle conflict, trust issues from past experiences, expectations around roles in your relationship, or cultural pressures you’ve internalized, we get to the core of what’s holding you back.
By understanding where these struggles come from, we can uncover how they’re playing out today - and how to move forward.
Most of you try to fix your relationship by addressing the symptoms - the arguments, the silence, the infidelity, the lack of intimacy - the disconnection.
But the truth is, these surface issues are usually tied to deeper roots - old patterns, unresolved pain, and unspoken expectations shaped by your past experiences, and your culture.
Here, we dig deeper...
Relationships have changed - and so have you.
Maybe your parent's relationship gave you a solid foundation, or maybe it left you piecing things together on your own.
Either way, your relationship is YOURS, and it's different.
You don’t just want to get by. You want something deeper: connection, growth, understanding, appreciation. Renaissance helps you dig past the surface and create a partnership that reflects who you both are now—and who you want to be in the future.
The Remixed Relationship provides culturally sensitive coaching for people living outside traditional molds.
Unlike conventional therapy, we address the intersection of cultural identitIES, individual values, and CONSIDER the complexities of modern relationships.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP, REIMAGINED.
no matter how long you've been together, we build a bridge from where you are now, to where you want to go.
Every relationship has challenges. Some of them are caused by stuff that hasn't been processed from your past - and some from stuff that's been building between you that remains unresolved.
But with the right guidance & approach, whether you're newly engaged or becoming empty-nesters, you can create a partnership that works for who you both are now and what you each want for the future.
Reveal the root of what’s holding you back & strengthen your foundation.
Reignite the physical & emotional connection & intimacy that’s been missing.
Repair past pain & resolve conflict with tools that make tough conversations feel productive, instead of painful.
Rebuild a partnership that is aligned with your values & grows with your future.
This isn't typical therapy.
Because your relationship isn't typical.
Most programs focus on fixing the couple at the surface.
Renaissance is different:
We Address the Whole Picture
Your relationship struggles didn’t start yesterday. We trace them back to childhood, culture, and past experiences to understand how they’re shaping your relationship today.
WE USE a GAME-CHANGING Hybrid Approach
WE LEAD WITH A Cultural Focus
With solo coaching to address individual patterns and couples coaching to strengthen the partnership, we work on both “you” and “us” simultaneously.
Your relationship exists within the context of your unique story. We honor your cultural influences while helping you build a dynamic that works for both of you, without having to over-explain yourself
Here, we navigate the deeper dynamics affecting your relationship everyday - trust issues, broken communication, disconnection, repetitive conflicts & misaligned growth.
Whether you’re early in your relationship or have been together forever, RENAISSANCE meets you where you are now & helps you build to where you want to go.
Renaissance is a personalized & culturally-focused 6-month couples coaching program designed to reset & rebuild your relationship from the ground up.
This isn’t one-size-fits-all advice.
It’s a personalized coaching experience curated to strengthen what's working & help fix what's not - no matter what's going on with the two of you right now.
So you can model the marriage you want for your kids. and theirs.
Hey, I'm Tanya!
AND I GET IT.
I get it—relationships can be messy, especially when culture, history & expectations collide. Because I've lived it.
A 10-year marriage that ended after we waited way too long to get support. A challenging divorce. And then, a second chance at love—this time, with a relationship coach that helped us build from the ground up.
Over 27 years, I’ve navigated interracial & interfaith marriage, divorce, remarriage, raising two kids from two relationships, and learning how to thrive in blended & intercultural families.
Add in professional certifications, training from The Gottman & Relational Life & Positive Intelligence Institutes, and hundreds of hours coaching couples, and you get a coach who not only understands the complexities of relationships firsthand, but also knows how to help you move through them.
You don’t have to over-explain yourself here. I understand the nuances of culture, communication, and connection—and I know how to help you break old patterns and create a relationship that works for where you are, and who you both are - now.
MORE OF MY STORY
YOUR CULTURE SHAPES YOUR LOVE STORY -
AND THAT MATTERS.
Pinpoint beliefs causing conflict—understand the cultural expectations and habits creating tension, and learn how to work through them together
Culturally-Focused Coaching
AND who you each are individually -
shapes who you are together.
THIS IS WHAT WE'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR
Because your cultural story shapes how you show up in love - and life.
Benefits...
Whether you grew up down the street from each other or across the world, the cultural influences you experienced in your family and community shape how you think, feel, and behave in relationships.
Most couples don’t realize how much their cultural backgrounds impact their connection, but ignoring these layers is one of the biggest reasons relationships struggle. In RENAISSANCE, we unpack these dynamics, so you can work through the differences and build a relationship that works for both of you.
Build mutual understanding and respect for the different perspectives & preferences each of you brings to the relationship.
Create new traditions or systems that align with your joint, shared values instead of defaulting to what you grew up with that isn't working
Learn tools to handle external pressure, expectations & opinions from family, culture, or community without guilt, shame, second-guessing yourself or building resentment.
Solo sessions give you a private space to explore your own thoughts, feelings, and triggers without fear of judgment or interruption.
Because your relationship is more than just the sum of its parts.
Benefits...
Most therapy & program focus only on the couple. But in RENAISSANCE we combine solo coaching for each partner with couples coaching. This unique hybrid approach helps each of you grow individually while strengthening your relationship as a whole.
You each get space to explore your own thoughts, feelings, and triggers without worrying about your partner judging you or intervening. Then, in joint sessions, you’ll work together on rebuilding trust, connection & communication. This method accelerates your results by ensuring that both of you are doing the work at the same time - individually and together.
Uncover personal blocks and patterns that may be holding you back, making it easier to show up fully in joint sessions.
Create new traditions or systems that align with your joint, shared values instead of defaulting to what you grew up with that isn't working
Learn tools to handle external pressure, expectations & opinions from family, culture, or community without guilt, shame, second-guessing yourself or building resentment.
a unique, hybrid approach
relationship results from renaissance
CoupleGoals
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We were both so frustrated and feeling really disconnected, like there almost was no point in staying together other than our kids. Tanya helped us understand the cultural beliefs fueling our arguments, and we spent a lot of time building ground rules for our relationship - something we never had. Now we can actually talk about hard stuff without it turning into an argument and without us feeling disconnected for days afterwards. Even our kids have mentioned the difference.
R. P.
RENAISSSANCE PROGRAM
We didn't think we could build back our marriage from infidelity, it felt impossible. But the solo sessions were a game changer. They allowed us to both process separately and then bring that to the couples sessions. It helped us be able to truly hear and understand each other and slowly we have been able to build back the trust and connection we never thought we could have again.
J.B.
RENAISSANCE PROGRAM
I am happy that I am more confident in myself. I am also able to open a part of my mind that had been restricted. I think I am more romantic now and enjoy looking at what my partner brings instead of what she doesn’t. I am able to think about myself first, fight for what I want in a peaceful way, something that was so hard for me because I wanted to please others first.
E.S.
RENAISSANCE PROGRAM
- 3 x 60-min Couples Coaching Sessions / Month
- Individual + Relationship-Building Thought Work + Activities
- Active Implementation of Interventions
- 2 x 60-min Solo Coaching Sessions Each / Month
- 2 x 60-min Couples Coaching Sessions / Month
- Individual + Relationship-Building Thought Work + Activities
- Identification & Active Implementation of Interventions
- 1 x 90-min Relationship Revelations Couples Coaching Intake + Interview
- 1 x 90-min Solo Session Each
- Individual + Relationship-Building Thought Work + Activities
THE LOGISTICS
- Positive Intelligence (PQ) Saboteur Assessment & Evaluation
- 2 x 15-20 min SOS Calls - Mini-sessions to address anything major or time-sensitive that comes up in between main sessions
- Program Worksheets for Personal & Couples Work
- Private Portal with Forever Access
READY TO INVEST IN OUR FUTURE
Investment
Pay in Full & Payment Plan Options Available
$4800
Are living more like roommates than partners - handling all your responsibilities of daily life, but without feeling truly connected.
RENAISSANCE IS MOST TRANSFORMATIVE FOR COUPLES WHO...
Want to stay together & are willing to put in the work, but just need to figure out how to make things better
Are ready to break the cycles that aren’t working—whether you’ve been together 2 years or 20—and create a relationship that feels secure, fulfilling, and built for the long term.
Feel stuck in repetitive arguments that never seem to resolve, leaving you both frustrated and distant.
Have lost emotional or physical intimacy and aren’t sure how to rebuild it.
Are navigating trust issues, betrayal, or resentment that feels too big to overcome.
Constantly feel like you’re walking on eggshells, afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing.
Want to align your relationship with the values that matter most to you while navigating cultural or religious differences.
Align your relationship with your values—break up with habits & beliefs that aren't helping, and replace them with ones that bring more peace, ease & understanding
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Feel seen, heard, and understood—learn how to truly listen to each other and express your needs without fear or frustration.
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Heal trust after betrayal or hurt - work through unresolved pain and rebuild a stronger foundation of security and confidence in yourself & each other
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Create peace from external pressure - learn to quiet noise from family, culture, or expectations and focus on what works for you as a couple.
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Rebuild emotional and physical intimacy - restore the connection and closeness you’ve been missing & understand what it takes to keep it flowing
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Talk without fighting - communicate clearly about even the toughest topics without spiraling into arguments or shutting down
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Results
from RENAISSANCE
Marriage Isn’t What It Used to Be—And That’s a Good Thing.
Relationships today don’t follow a straight line - and they shouldn’t.
At The Remixed Relationship, we embrace the ups, downs, and in-betweens of partnership, helping you create a relationship that is able to evolve with you.
because love is supposed to grow - not stay stuck in outdated rules or broken patterns.
INNER WORLDs EXPLORATION
Innovative, Strategic, Curated
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HEAL your relationship OVER 3 PHASES
Get to know your own needs, triggers & patterns - and your partner’s too.
Identify how & why your past experiences and cultural influences are impacting your relationship.
Build a deeper understanding of what’s really going on beneath the surface so you can finally get on the same page.
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Learn how to navigate your differences—cultural, personal, and relational—and turn them into strengths.
Develop practical tools to address recurring challenges like communication breakdowns or mismatched expectations.
Build strategies for managing conflict and creating solutions that feel fair and balanced for both of you.
INTERSECTIONS & INTERVENTIONS
Innovative, Strategic, Curated
HEAL your relationship OVER 3 PHASES
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Practice the tools and strategies in real-life scenarios with ongoing support.
Repair old wounds and rebuild trust as you move forward together.
Create a relationship toolkit so you’re ready to handle challenges with more calm, confidence, and connection.
INSPIRED IMPLEMENTATION
Innovative, Strategic, Curated
HEAL your relationship OVER 3 PHASES
RELATIONSHIP RENAISSANCE
FAQs
RR was created specifically for intercultural couples, and prioritizes cultural sensitivity through story-telling. My hybrid coaching method emphasizes self-awareness, accountability, empathy, and cultural understanding before interventions, deepening healing + growth within the relationship.
Coaching focuses on achieving goals, improving communication, and building personal growth. It's action-oriented, forward-looking, and beneficial for individuals and couples seeking guidance on specific challenges. Therapy addresses mental health issues, unresolved past traumas, and includes deeper psychological exploration. While therapy emphasizes healing from the past, coaching concentrates on empowerment and action-taking in the present, for your future.
WHEN IS THERAPY MORE SUITABLE THAN COACHING?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues, addiction, or unresolved trauma, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
IS RELATIONSHIP RENAISSANCE SUITABLE FOR COUPLES AT DIFFERENT STAGES OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
Yes. Whether you're dating and looking to making deeper long-term commitments, or you've been married forever, RR was designed to support couples at all stages of their relationship journey. The framework is adaptable, and applied to your specific set of circumstances.
WHERE CAN WE EXPECT TO BE AT THE END OF RELATIONSHIP RENAISSANCE?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
A more aligned, harmonious relationship dynamic that centers empathy & understanding over everything else. Expect deeper self & partner awareness, enhanced communication, a profound grasp of each other's cultural stories & influences, and concrete strategies that support continued growth and connection.
Absolutely. RR is an inclusive-program built for any iteration of committed, intercultural, modern love. The foundational principles for positive transformation apply to every relationship.
Renaissance isn't suitable for couples in which one or both individuals have a history of severe unresolved past trauma, addiction, are actively unfaithful, are not committed to the relationship, or are in an open or polygamous relationship.
With 27 years navigating the challenges of (interracial/intercultural) relationships, a life coaching certification, and research-based training with The Gottman & Relational Life Institutes, I offer a unique blend of personal experience and professional expertise. I've personally lived countless hours navigating my own relationships, and successfully coached clients over hundreds of hours, equipping me to guide you through the complexities of your relationship with a personal & culturally-sensitive approach.
Relationship Renaissance is a transformative experience, curated specifically for couples in long-term, committed relationships who are interested in creating real change in the quality and experience of your relationship. That involves taking a look beyond what's obvious, and going deeper into your personal stories, so you can better understand the root of your issues, rather than just dealing with the symptoms as they come up.
If you're a couple that is invested in figuring things out, building, and finding a way to grow together that also allows you to be YOU, then Relationship Renaissance would be a powerful experience for you.
Relationship Renaissance offers a transformative experience curated specifically for couples in interracial & intercultural committed relationships. Compared to traditional therapy that charges by the session, usually continues for extended periods of time, and involves each of you also seeking individual therapy, Relationship Renaissance compounds your efforts and multiplies your effects by offering a unique opportunity to coach solo AND together. This hybrid coaching approach not only multiplies the impact through individual and joint sessions but also equips you with tools to prevent "relationship relapses" and create sustainable, effective positive change.
