THE REAL YOU - finally REvEALED.
START YOUR RESET JOURNEY
if you're feeling stuck, frustrated, or unfulfilled in your life or relationship, Reset will help you gain the clarity you want, and take the steps you need
to create the freedom - in your mind, your choices & your future - that you deserve.
you'RE TIRED OF PLAYING A ROLE & are READY TO JUST BE YOU...
You've checked all the boxes, done what you 'should' do, and your life looks IG-worthy from the outside - but you still feel like something is missing.
But you’re starting to realize that maybe, just maybe,
you deserve more.
More excitement, more passion, more connection -
with your life, in your relationship, and most importantly, with yourself.
You know there’s a different path for you, but figuring out how to actually GET YOURSELF TO take it has been the hard part.
It’s time to rediscover who you really are, what you really want -
and GO GET IT.
You’re tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and disconnected - from your present life, in your relationship, and from the more fun & fulfilled version of yourself you know is somewhere in there.
You’ve tried everything to figure out how to feel better & move forward, but you're still overwhelmed, confused & conflicted - unsure how to get out of this place.
You’ve gotten so good at going through the motions, making sure everyone else is happy, and doing what’s expected - making it all LOOK GREAT.
You’ve been conditioned - by your culture & your childhood - to follow a certain pre-written plan, to put other's needs before yours, to eat your emotions, and to go for whatever is gonna get you the nice house, successful husband (or wife), and fancy vacations - even if you're miserable doing it.
But now you're tired of being the strong one - the one who always figures shit out - the one who has all the answers.
Deep down, you know it’s time for a RESET.
I'M READY TO RESET
As a woman of color, working with Tanya felt deeply empowering. Her personalized coaching was so direct but empathetic at the same time. She helped me rediscover my inner strength and find the courage to stand up for myself while navigating a very difficult life transition. Since working with Tanya I left a toxic relationship, found new love, moved to a different country and changed careers - all of which felt impossible a few years ago.
- P.R.
RESET PROGRAM
Success Story
You’re overwhelmed, carrying the weight of your life, responsibilities & relationships on your shoulders. It feels like no matter what you do, nothing changes. You’re tired of managing it all & trying to figure it out on your own.
YOU'RE TIRED OF HOLDING IT ALL DOWN
YOU WANT TO MAKE A DECISION & are sick of living in limbo
You've been wanting to make a change for a long time, but have been waiting for the right set of circumstances. And somehow they never seem to come. You've tried all the things - the books, podcasts, talking to friends - & you still feel stuck. You're tired of living in limbo, and really need some help moving forward.
YOU'RE READY TO REDISCOVER WHO YOU REALLY ARE & what you're really capable of
You know there's more out here for you - and you're ready to see what getting it actually feels like. You're tired of feeling disconnected from yourself - you're successful, smart & have your shit together, so why do you feel unfulfilled & somewhat empty. Life is moving, and yours looks good from the outside, but inside you know that you're ready to let go & level up.
YOU'RE TIRED OF SAYING YES, WHEN YOU MEAN NO & PRIORITIZING OTHER PEOPLE'S NEEDS & WANTS
Whether it’s your objecting & opinionated family, trying to keep up with friends, or the influence of your culture - the expectations from others & the outside are causing way too much overwhelm. You’re tired of trying to live up to everyone else’s version of your life, but you’re not sure how to break free.
YOU'RE READY FOR A REAL CHANGE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
You’ve been doing the work, but the connection you crave still isn’t there. You’re tired of repeating the same patterns, having the same arguments, and feeling like you’re not truly seen or understood. It’s time for a real shift, whether it’s redefining your current relationship or figuring out what’s next.
Does This Sound Like You?
READY FOR MY RESET
THe 7C STRATEGY
CLARITY
Get clear on what’s holding you back and what you truly want.
COURAGE
Find the strength to make bold decisions and take action.
get clear on what YOU WANT
hold yourself accountable
take consistent steps towards what's best for you
TRUST yourself & create the outcomes you want in your life...forever
CONFIDENCE
Build trust in yourself to move forward with purpose.
CURIOSITY
Explore new perspectives and unlock creative solutions.
COMMITMENT
Stay accountable to & responsible for what's required of you to create change
CONNECTION
Strengthen your relationship with yourself, your purpose, and others.
CHANGE
Implement what you’ve learned to create real results in your life or relationship.
It's hard to TRUST your own truth when you've spent so long living for other people's expectations.
Reset is built around the 7C strategy—a powerful framework to help you:
You’ll finally ditch the habit of living for everyone else’s approval and start showing up for you - without the guilt or hesitation.
DO WHAT ACTUALLY LIGHTS YOU UP
You’ll uncover the thoughts and patterns holding you back, break the cycle, and finally start living the version of life that feels passionate and powerful.
TRUST YOURSELF AS THE FIRST & LAST VOICE
No more waiting for your mom, your friends, or anyone else to validate your choices. You’ll start trusting your gut & making decisions confidently - without second-guessing yourself or feeling guilty.
You’ve been stuck on autopilot for too long - it's time to connect with the new you, chase those dreams again & bring yourself back to life.
MAKE BOLD MOVES
No more overthinking or anxiety. You’ll make clear, bold decisions moving forward from confidence & your truth, without a bunch of worrying about what other people are going to think.
CREATE A LIFE THAT FEELS AS GOOD AS IT LOOKS
Forget about keeping up appearances. You’ll finally live a life that feels just as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.
feel more peace, live more free & improve your relationships -
starting with the one you have with yourself.
i want this life
REAL results from reSET
Success Stories
I thought life was good before but I feel 10x better now and so much more in control of who I am and what I need to do. Working with Tanya was worth every penny! I trusted her completely and got the best guidance a Coach could provide. Sometimes it wasn't easy to hear but its exactly what I needed. I'm so grateful for her insight and encourage anyone looking for a Coach to work with her. Trust me, this is coming from a hard headed New Yorker! Thank you Tanya! I appreciate you more than you will ever know!
V.G.
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I was lost, no sure where the light was in my story. I was struggling in my marriage, I was hurt, depressed & angry. I tried traditional therapy and it wasn't for me - I knew I had to try something different.
Coaching with Tanya is like coaching with someone I've known my entire life and can still have objective views on everything. It's helped me in ways I didn't expect.
I learned myself again. Who I am, who I'm becoming, more aware of my emotions (learning my emotional regulation), I'm happier and can smile and can breathe. I'm taking steps forward in my life and moving on and looking foward to being completely free.
S.T.
RESET PROGRAM
RESET IS A PRIVATE 1:1 COACHING EXPERIENCE.
We build you a
PERSONALIZED ROADMAP
that allows you to
FIND THE CLARITY, BUILD THE CONFIDENCE & GET THE SUPPORT you need to MAKE THE CHANGES you want.
10 Private Sessions: 60-min sessions designed to dive deep into what’s keeping you stuck and create actionable steps to move forward
Thought Work: You’ll get tools and strategies to rewire your mindset, break unhelpful patterns, and shift how you approach your life and relationships
7C Strategy: We'll use the 7C framework to guide you through finding clarity, confidence, and the courage to make bold decisions
Personalized Action Plans: After each session, you’ll leave with clear, achievable steps to keep you moving in the right direction
THE LOGISTICS
READY FOR REAL RESULTS
We work together in a 3- or 6-month coaching relationship, that is tailored to your specific story, your needs & your goals.
Pay in Full & Payment Plan Options Available
3-month INVESTMENT
$2400
20 Private Sessions: 60-min sessions designed to dive deep into what’s keeping you stuck & create actionable steps to move forward, with enough time to actually integrate what you're learning into your life & adjust where necessary
Thought Work: You’ll get tools and strategies to rewire your mindset, break unhelpful patterns, and shift how you approach your life and relationships.
7C Strategy: We'll use the 7C framework to guide you through finding clarity, confidence, and the courage to make bold decisions.
Personalized Action Plans: After each session, you’ll leave with clear, achievable steps to keep you moving in the right direction.
WhatsApp Support: Direct access to me between sessions for extra guidance, support, and real-time feedback.
Pay in Full & Payment Plan Options Available
6-month INVESTMENT
$4000
READY FOR REAL RESULTS
We blend cultural awareness, practical strategies, and my signature 7C framework to help you cut through the noise and take real, lasting action.
This isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level changes. It’s about getting to the root of what’s holding you back or keeping you stuck, and creating a deep transformation that changes the way you look at yourself, life & what's possible for you.
Whether you’re navigating a difficult transition, relationship struggles, or just feeling lost in your own life, RESET will give you the clarity & the confidence to make the changes you’ve been craving.
RESET is deeply personalized to YOU - your background, your story, your culture, your challenges.
You’ll uncover the patterns & conditioning keeping you stuck in the same old situations, and break the cycle, building new patterns that will help support you in creating & maintaining the life and relationships that you actually want.
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Feel more at ease with yourself, more connected, and actually excited about what’s next, even if you're not sure exactly how you're going to get there. You'll trust your choices & you'll trust the journey, experiencing real freedom.
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You'll let go of second-guessing yourself or feeling guilt about your choices & start making decisions more confidently, without feeling like you have to get everyone else’s approval
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You'll learn to create healthier relationships & more balanced connections - first with yourself, and also others whether it’s your romantic partner, family, friends or boss - without losing trust or sight of yourself in the process.
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You'll access the parts of you that are underneath all the pressure & expectations, the guilt & the past hurt - and learn to be kinder to yourself, and trust yourself, so you can finally feel grounded & more clear with yourself & in your life.
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You’ll explore & release the stories, beliefs and habits that have been keeping you stuck & holding you back - those “shoulds” you’ve been carrying from family or culture - and rewrite them to actually support the life you want.
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TRANSFORMATIVE
Results
from RELATIONSHIP RESET
I know what it’s like to check all the boxes and still feel like something’s missing inside. I’ve been there—feeling ashamed while people say, “I wish I had your life,” and you quietly wonder why you feel unhappy and unfulfilled (and guilty about it!).
For years, I’ve helped individuals and couples break free from the expectations and "shoulds" that keep them stuck. Most of us live lives that look good on paper but don’t feel fulfilling on the inside.
As the daughter of Indian immigrants, I know exactly what it’s like to carry the weight of cultural expectations and the pressure to follow a path that makes everyone else proud. I asserted my independence early—choosing interracial relationships and a career in luxury fashion—and it wasn’t easy. I had to learn to trust myself, advocate for what I truly wanted, and honor my own desires, even when they went against other people's opinions or expectations.
Since then, I’ve had to RESET in my life many times—through divorce, becoming a single mother, losing my multi-6-figure job, repartnering & having another baby at 39, moving across the country, and a complete career change. I’ve learned how to make decisions that align with me, no matter what anyone else thinks.
Now, my mission is to help you do the same. I’ll guide you through your own RESET so you can create a life and relationships that feel as good on the inside as they look on the outside.
Hey, I'm Tanya!
your coach & biggest cheerleader
MORE ABOUT MY JOURNEY
You feel stuck in your relationship or life, constantly second-guessing your choices, and you’re tired of feeling like you’re just going through the motions.
You’ve been checking all the boxes, succeeding on the outside, but deep down, you feel disconnected and unfulfilled—and you’re ready to change that.
You’re done living for other people’s expectations, whether it’s family, culture, or society— you want to finally live life on your own terms.
You’ve been struggling with indecision about whether to stay in your relationship or move on, and you’re ready to find clarity and peace of mind.
You’ve lost touch with who you really are and what truly lights you up—and you’re ready to reconnect with yourself and your purpose.
You’re ready to break free from old patterns, whether they’re cultural, familial, or personal, and build a life and relationship that feels true to you.
Who is Relationship RESET best for?
IT'S TIME TO CHOOSE YOU.
You’ve spent long enough living by the rules, feeling stuck, and putting yourself last. Reset is your chance to step into a life that’s yours, fully and unapologetically. Ready to start making choices that feel right, trusting yourself every step of the way?
TAKE THE 1ST STEP TO YOUR RESET
If you’re ready to reconnect with who you are and what you really want, then let’s begin.
RELATIONSHIP RESET
FAQs
RESET is for you if you’re feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or overwhelmed—whether in your life, any of your relationships, or within yourself. If you’re ready to make real changes, but don’t know where to start, this program will help you gain clarity and direction & hold you accountable for the steps you need to take.
The 3-month program includes 12 sessions, while the 6-month program includes 24 sessions plus some additional support. Expect to dedicate one hour per session (except for our 1st 90-min session), plus a bit of personal reflection and action between sessions.
As with most things, the effort that you put into coaching will determine the results you'll get out of it.
Can Reset help me if I’m not in a relationship?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
Absolutely. RESET is designed to help you reconnect with yourself, gain confidence, and create a life that feels right to you—whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between.
CAN RESET HELP MY MARRIAGE / RELATIONSHIP IF MY PARTNER DOESN'T WANT TO DO COUPLES COACHING?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
Yes! RESET will help you gain clarity around your own needs & wants, build internal trust & confidence, and improve your communication skills, which can have a huge impact on your relationship—even if your partner isn’t in coaching. By focusing on what you can control, you’ll start making changes that positively affect how you feel and how you interact, which often creates change in your relationship as a whole.
I DON'T LIKE TO EXPRESS MY EMOTIONS - WILL COACHING REQUIRE ME TO DO THAT?
Coaching is effective for couples seeking growth, better communication, and navigating challenges. However, if one partner is dealing with severe mental health issues like depression or addiction, therapy may be a more suitable initial step to provide the necessary support and intervention before considering coaching.
If expressing emotions feels uncomfortable, we’ll start by exploring why that is. Understanding what makes sharing your emotions hard can actually open up a lot of clarity and freedom. Coaching doesn't require you to be "emotional" - but it does teach you to recognize what you're feeling and contextualize it won’t be pushed to cry or express anything in a way that feels forced—instead, we’ll look at why those feelings are tough to share and work together to make emotional expression feel safer and more natural over time.
Everyone's process & journey is unique - which is why my coaching is focused on YOUR unique story - but most of my clients start noticing shifts in their mindset, confidence, and relationships within the first few sessions. As we work together, these changes build, leading to deeper clarity and more meaningful results over time.
That’s actually pretty common! Coaching is a different approach—it's more action-focused and geared towards practical steps to move forward, rather than healing from the past. But just as important as the approach is finding the right fit for you. The relationship you have with your coach or therapist can make all the difference. If therapy didn’t feel like a match, coaching, especiallyy with someone who “gets it” culturally might feel more natural and empowering. Together, we’ll create a plan that’s tailored to you, so it feels motivating and relevant right from the start.
I’m a certified life and relationship coach with years of experience helping individuals and couples from all sorts of backgrounds navigate challenges, reconnect with themselves, and create lives & relationships that feel deeply fulfilling. I draw from my 27 years of personal experience in intercultural relationships, plus my trainings from the Gottman Institute, the Relational Life Institute, and in Positive Intelligence. But beyond the credentials, I’ve lived through many of the same struggles my clients face—cultural expectations, big life changes, relationship transitions—and I’m passionate about helping people find their path with real, practical tools. When you work with me, you’re getting someone who understands the journey and is committed to guiding you through yours.
RESET is a private coaching program designed to offer deep, personalized support, which is not covered by insurance. Your investment reflects the one-on-one attention, customized action plans, and ongoing support you’ll receive to create real change in your life and relationships. If you’d like to explore flexible payment options, please reach out, and we can absolutely discuss what works best for you.
