culturally-focused COACHING FOR INDIVIDUALS & COUPLES - to help you break generational patterns & rewrite your relationship story - your way
Rewrite the Rules of Love, Life & Legacy.
You want a marriage that feels like a partnership—not a battlefield of constant arguments, a silent retreat of disconnection, or just a friendly roommate situation where all romance has disappeared.
You want to feel truly appreciated, considered & safe - for your connection to flow naturally, for difficult talks to be productive & for the two of you to feel like you're on the same team, working towards a joint future.
You want a relationship with yourself that feels peaceful. Where you're not chasing the next thing, only to feel unfulfilled when you get there. Where the pressure to be perfect doesn’t dictate your every move, and you can finally exhale, relax, and finally just be you.
For yourself. For your partner. And for future generations.
It’s time to change your relationships.
TAKE THE NEXT STEP
WHERE LOVE MEETS LEGACY, REMIXED.
If this feels out of reach, because you've 'tried everything' already, or because you can't yet imagine how someone you don't know can help (or even understand) - I’m here to show you something different.
You’re ready to feel more connected to your partner, even when navigating the cultural or family differences that keep pulling you apart
Your trust has been betrayed, and you're feeling insecure in the relationship - you want to feel safe, secure & confident again
You’re struggling because you want the reality you're living to actually match the love story you’ve always had in your head
You want to finally understand how your partner really feels, especially when they keep things bottled up and won’t tell you directly
You’re tired of keeping the relationship looking good on the outside when it doesn’t reflect the love, intimacy, or connection you truly want on the inside
if you're looking for MORE CONNECTION & calm AND less conflict IN your RELATIONSHIP, you're in the right place.
Find Clarity, Heal, and Move Forward
You’re overwhelmed by trying to meet everyone else’s expectations and feel like you’ve lost yourself in the process
You’re healing from past relationship pain—like betrayal, heartbreak, or unhealthy patterns—and you want to trust yourself and others again
You’re questioning whether to stay or go in your relationship and need clarity to make a decision that feels right for you
You’re tired of attracting the same kinds of relationships that don’t work, and you want to break the cycle once and for all
You’ve been living on autopilot, checking all the boxes, but still feel like something is missing—and you’re ready to find fulfillment on your terms.
Create the Relationship You Both Deserve
FOR COUPLES
FOR INDIVIDUALS
Whether you’re navigating a life transition, feeling lost in your LIFE / relationship, or searching for happiness, we’ll reset your direction & BUILD A clear PATH FORWARD.
Coaching Designed to help you create the Relationship you want - with Yourself & with Your Partner.
Culturally-focused Coaching
Everyone faces challenges, everyone needs support. And because your story, culture, and experiences shape how you show up & where you struggle - it's crucial that we explore them as part of the solution, too.
'Cause no-one hands us a guidebook for life or love. And a one-size-fits-all approach isn't going to work.
The problem is that most approaches to healing don’t account for the nuances of your culture, upbringing, or unique story, leaving you feeling unseen, misunderstood & like the advice doesn’t really apply to you.
Culturally-focused coaching is about meeting you wherever you're at on your journey, honoring the parts of your story that matter, and helping you let go of what’s holding you back.
personalIZED COACHING,
for your VERY personal story...
Here, I help you unlearn those patterns and build a relationship that reflects who you truly are, and the kind of connection you want with yourself, and in your relationship.
Many people either repeat what they saw growing up or swing in the opposite direction, only to find it still doesn’t fit or feel good.
Success Story
- K.R.
RENAISSANCE PROGRAM
Four years into our marriage, we were drowning in family expectations and judgments—he’s Indian, I’m Black. Every conversation turned into a fight, and I didn’t feel seen, safe, or prioritized. Tanya helped us say the things we couldn’t on our own. Her solo sessions gave us the space to process what was hard to admit out loud, and now, we’re able to talk through the tough stuff without it turning into a blow-up or me wanting to walk away. She gave us the tools to finally feel like a team.
"my divorce taught me a lot about relationships, and myself"
Let me be real - I know what it feels like for everything to fall apart.
A few years ago, I lost my multi 6-figure job and my marriage within 6 weeks. One day, I was a VP with a seemingly perfect life in Brooklyn. The next, I was a single mom trying to figure out what came next.
The truth is, I wasn't happy - not in my career, not with myself, and certainly not in my marriage. So I chose to see what was happening as a blessing, and it became the turning point.
I hired my first life coaches, rebuilt my life, met my now-husband, had another baby, moved across the country, and created a career and life that feel 100% true to me, on my own terms.
Now, I help individuals and couples do the same—breaking old patterns, building new habits, and creating lives and relationships that finally feel like yours - BEFORE things fall all the way apart.
hey, i'm tanya
HOUSTON-BASED CERTIFIED LIFE + RELATIONSHIP COACH, mama, FORMER LUXURY FASHION EXEC, WORLD-TRAVELER, MUSIC-LOVER, GROWTH-SEEKER, COCKTAIL SNOB + ADVOCATE FOR ALL thINGS LOVE.
STREET CRED
RENAISSANCE
Renaissance is a 6-month culturally-focused coaching program for couples ready to break free from unhealthy patterns inherited from your parents, culture, or past. Through my 3-step process, we’ll heal what’s not working, improve communication & build a new culture rooted in partnership & shared values - so your kids will get to see a healthier version of marriage than you did
RESET
RESET is a 6-month life and relationship coaching journey designed for individuals who are ready to get unstuck, grow, and feel free. Whether you're healing from past pain, needing to break unhealthy patterns, or if you're having a hard time deciding whether to stay in your relationship, or go, in RESET, we will work to create the clarity, confidence & action plan you need for the life & relationship you want.
SERVICES
Here's how I can help...
for couples
for INDIVIDUALS
(SOLO COACHING REGARDLESS OF RELATIONSHIP STATUS)
(A HYBRID EXPERIENCE OF BOTH SOLO & COUPLES COACHING)
RESET Express is a focused, 3-session coaching experience designed for individuals who need quick clarity and actionable steps to tackle life’s immediate challenges. Whether it’s navigating tough decisions, breaking through stuck patterns, or finding relief before the holidays, RESET Express gives you the tools and support to move forward—fast.
RESET EXPRESS
for INDIVIDUAL OR couples
(SHORT-TERM COACHING FOCUSED ON ONE MAIN SOLUTION)
You evolve, and so does who & how you love.
At The REMIXED Relationship, we believe in breaking cycles, honoring individuality, and building relationships that reflect today’s personal & cultural values, while also honoring yesterday’s traditions.
Our vision is to guide individuals and couples toward honest, aligned connection with yourselves & each other, while creating healthier, happier examples of marriage & relationships, that take the good of the past and make it that much better for your future.
This is where love meets legacy - REMIXED.
where the old sh*t ends...and YOUR new story begins.
for individuals & couples ready to break the rules you’ve inherited, and rewrite your relationship story, with yourself - and anyone else that matters.
LOVE. LIFE. LEGACY.
REdefined.
let's TALK!
Break old patterns.
Build new stories.
From breaking free of the past to creating a future that fits, this is where you get to design a life and love that feel aligned, authentic & amazing.
